6 Tips To Quick Cleaning ~ Kitchen Style

I thought I’d switch things up a little bit and talk about how to quick clean the kitchen.  After all ~ I am the QUEEN OF CLEAN!  (OR NOT!)  

That was a joke *cue laughing*

I’ve been a homemaker for 25 years and my weakness happens to be cooking and cleaning!  Imagine that ~ HA!  (I blame my creative side for that.)

But if there is such a thing as an award for “Most Improved,” I surely would be a candidate for most improved cooker and cleaner because I have changed so much in that particular department.

Cleaning isn’t one of my strengths but I’ve discovered a few ways to make cleaning so much easier.  Since I’m excited about what I’m learning,  I thought I’d share my tips and secrets for a quick cleaning of the kitchen, especially for those who cook a lot, like me!  (Notice how I keep saying “QUICK” cleaning.)

1.  CUT THE CLUTTER

AAHHHH CLUTTER!  NOW ~ I am the queen of clutter, that’s for sure!  I’m more attached to my stuff than a baby to his binky.  But I’ve learned that being attached to your clutter is like being attached to your fat.  It’s a heavy and needless burden to bear.

I’m not where I’d like to be yet, but I’m making progress by leaps and bounds.  Although it has always crossed my mind in the past that I use 25% of my stuff and store the other 75%, which is very much in my way, I really didn’t understand the significance of living minimally.  I thought it was wise to keep everything.

I stumbled on this mindset totally by accident.  I’ll tell you the whole story (since you asked haha.)  A mom in a homeschool FB group posted that she was so happy to get rid of most of her homeschooling stuff to become more minimal and stress free.  I commented that I have trouble getting rid of anything especially homeschool curriculum and that I have 18 years of homeschooling that is taking over my house.  She recommended another group page and I joined right away.

That’s when I learned about Allie Casazza and quickly signed up to receive her blogs.

I LEARNED SO MUCH FROM HER!!!  

She doesn’t know I’m talking about her or that I exist.  But I’m going to give her a shout out because she has completely changed my thinking and my life.


You can read about my purging journey in my blog “The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent ~ Part 2.”   It’s a good story!

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QUESTION:  How do you declutter the kitchen?

ANSWER:  Get rid of the stuff you don’t need or use.  Get rid of the excess dishes and silverware.  If this creeps you out, then take some of it and put it away somewhere where your family won’t find it.  That way they’ll be more inclined to wash a dish they need than go to the cupboard to dirty another dish.

Completely clear off your counters and put everything away.  Put your “stuff” in the cupboards.  If there’s no room, then get rid of something.  I cook a lot and make most meals from scratch and I don’t really have a lot of “stuff.”

I keep my waffle iron, food processor, and crock pot in the cupboard below where I use them or on my refrigerator.  I do keep my toaster, Jayce’s diabetes supplies, and kitchen knives on my counter ~ but usually that’s all.

Now, I am a work in progress so I’m not going to pretend that my counters are perfect right this second.  But it’s my goal to get them this way at night before going to bed ~  at least during the weekday.

Whatever your hand finds to do ~ do it with all your might ~ Ecclesiastes 9:10

2. CLEAN AS YOU GO

I rinse my dishes off as I use them and I also have a sink full of hot soapy water.  I will either put the rinsed off dishes in the dishwasher or give them a quick wash in the soapy water and let them sit to dry.

That way I’m not left with a huge stack of dirty dishes to do at the end of the day.  I clean as I go, for the most part, but even if I don’t get everything cleaned every time, I still do enough to make it easier for me at the end of the day.

And this is where the decluttering of dishes comes in handy.  If you have only enough dishes for the people in your house available, then even if everything is dirty, there won’t be a lot to clean.  Rinse every plate after each meal so they will be ready for the next meal.


Every family is different and every need is unique.  We are a homeschooling family who is home for every meal.  We have 6 people living in our house, a gluten-free, diabetic 7 year old with special dietary needs, and a 14 year old boy who is continually hungry.  Our kitchen is used and loved a lot ~ maybe more than the average household.


3.  START ON ONE SIDE

After dinner, I will start with the kitchen table by clearing it and cleaning it completely.  This is also a good job for the kiddos to do.  Then I start from the far right side of the counter and move around the entire kitchen.  I clear everything off the counter usually by taking as much as I can hold at a time.  Doing it this way seems to go faster for me.  I keep moving quickly taking armfuls of stuff, throwing and putting away and stacking the dishes, moving from one side of the counter to the other until I’m completely finished.  If I’m not distracted by something ~ this goes super quick!  All that’s left is wiping the counter and taking care of the dishes. Once all that’s done, I make sure my sink is completely cleaned, dried and shining bright!  And then I sweep the floor and wipe quick with a wet cloth.

4.  MOVE QUICKLY

There are things you can do quickly and once you get into the habit of doing these fast it becomes automatic.  For me, if I focus on doing this every day and keep myself moving quickly, I really find myself becoming a much quicker cleaner.

Whatever you do ~ do your work heartily ~ as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance.  It is the Lord Christ whom you serve.  Colossians 3:23-24

5.  DELEGATE

I’m terrible at delegating.  I’m a do-it-yourself kind of gal so it’s hard for me to let go.  Besides encouraging our children to clean up their own mess, I assign one child to empty the dishwasher and the trash every day (they switch off every month with vacuuming.)  I also have the kids clear and clean the table.  It’s simple enough that they can (and will) do it without being nagged but it also helps with the work in a big way.

6.  DEEP CLEAN ONCE A WEEK

Once a week I deep clean my kitchen.  I dust the top of the refrigerator, pantry doors, window sills and shades, etc.  I use Murphy Oil Soap on my floors and cupboards, and I clean out my fridge.

I had to make myself remember to do this every week because I’m not naturally organized and cleanly.

Since I do this often, I do this as quickly as possible.  As I say to my children ~ I scurry!  I figure that it’s better to do this once a week quickly, than to do it once a year slowly or not at all ~ YIKES!  Even if I forget something one week or I only have time to deep clean half of my kitchen, it still gets a thorough touch up at least once or twice a month.


I know so many people who are much better at cleaning and organizing than I am so I feel a little silly writing a post like this.

But since this is what I’m working on right now and there might be someone somewhere who will be blessed and encouraged by what I write, I thought I’d go ahead and share.  This is my story and hopefully, someone can learn something from me.

All hard work brings profit ~ Proverbs 14:23

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7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

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7 Ways to Make Great Teens

Keeping with the teen theme I have going on right now, I thought I’d create another blog about teenagers.

Currently we have a 14 and 16 year old in the house and a very teen-like 7 year old.  And since we also have a couple kids in their early 20s ~ I’m seeing the before, during, and after, all at once.  What a view!

OH GIVE THANKS TO THE LORD

I have to admit that I write about handling teenagers with trembling fingers because ~ YIKES ~ sometimes I just don’t think I know what the heck I’m doing let alone write about it.  I’m not sure if I have teen fever or what but I sure have a lot to say about the very thing I feel the most incompetent talking about.

Sorry to disappoint ~ but hear me out.  With a transparent heart I will share the truth that I feel very inadequate as a mom sometimes.  But even the “experts” don’t know how to handle the tiny human heart so let’s not be too hard on ourselves ~ OK?

As complicated as mom life is and being a parent of teens can be, there is hope.  There are more answers to our questions than we can comprehend ~ we just need to know where to look.


1 ~ LOOK TO GOD’S WORD

Well DUH!  You knew I was going to say that, right?  But the truth is that the Word of God has everything to say about how to live life, how NOT to live life, about eternal life and WHO to trust.  It’s all there!  It also has so much to say about raising children and teens.

CALL UPON HIS NAME

As parents, we need to know everything about the bible.  We need to walk humbly with our God and seek Him every single day.  It’s not magic or legalism.  It’s a relationship.  It’s impossible to do this alone and we will fail if we try.  We need the Lord and we need to be obsessed with Him and with seeking Him.

Satan, the world, and our society are all all obsessed with keeping us away from God ~ so we need to fight to keep God first in our lives and not stray from Him.  Our family depends on us to be strong in the Lord.

Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.

1 John 4:4


The Word of God is the best history book and the best spiritual book.  It not only talks about historical events which is perfect for education but the Old Testament is pointing the world to the coming of Christ and the New Testament is pointing the world to the risen Christ.  It’s all about Jesus and salvation with history and life lessons all intertwined with lovingkindness, grace, and justice.


MAKE KNOWN HIS DEEDS AMONG THE PEOPLES

Our children are our responsibility until they are fully mature and are capable of handling life on their own.  That includes their spiritual life.

When our children fall, we can feel like a failure but that’s what life is about. It’s about falling down and getting back on the horse.

We need to equip them as much as possible ~ as soon as possible ~ but also know that they will have to learn some lessons on their own.

We need to always be there for them to help them along the way and set an example of how to trust in the Lord.  That’s the key.  Building a relationship with God and growing in Him.  We must never forget ourselves but lead by example and teach this to our children also.

SING TO HIM ~ SING PRAISES TO HIM


2 ~ PRAY

Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.  Colossians 4:2

Prayer is powerful and God wants us to devote ourselves to prayer with diligence and faithfulness.

Pray for your children and your family ~ pray for faithfulness and wisdom. Pray that they will listen to the Holy Spirit and glorify the Lord with their lives.

Pray for protection ~ for blessings ~ and everything in between.  Pray without ceasing and don’t forget ~ PRAY ALWAYS!

The Lord is near to all who call on Him,
to all who call on Him in truth.  Psalm 145:18

SPEAK OF ALL HIS WONDERS


 

3 ~ DO NOT PROVOKE THEM

As for parents, don’t provoke your children to anger, but raise them with discipline and instruction about the Lord.  Ephesians 6:4

The tendency for some is for the pendulum to swing from anger, yelling and annoyance to hovering, controlling and being self-righteous.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.  Galatians 5:22-23

We are not to exasperate them to the point of resentment by nitpicking them, making demands that are trivial, unreasonable, showing favoritism or annoyance.  BUT show them tenderhearted lovingkindness ~ even when they’re little stinkers ~ HA!

Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.  Colossians 3:21


 

4 ~ TEACH THEM TO BE GREAT

The Lord is our God, the Lord is one!  You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.  These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart.  You shall teach them diligently to your children and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.  Deuteronomy 6:4-7

GLORY IN HIS HOLY NAME

Teach your children:

~ To love the Lord

~ To serve Him with all their heart and all their soul

~ To respect themselves and others

~ Kindness

~ Discipline

~ How to be healthy

~ How to pray

~ How to spend time with God

~ How to walk humbly with the Lord


5 ~ BE CONSISTENT

Consistency and persistence starts when they’re young.  The more consistent you are when they’re young, the better teens and adults they will be.  If they’re a challenge when they’re older, it’s even more important to be consistent and not give up.

This is a battle and we need to fight for our children.  If we don’t ~ someone else will.  We are strong enough to win because we have the Lord.  We must never lose heart ~ we must finish strong!

 With God on our side we will win; He will defeat our enemies.  Psalm 108:13


6 ~ HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE

LET THE HEART OF THOSE WHO SEEK THE LORD BE GLAD

Be firm and bold and hold them accountable for their actions.  Don’t be afraid of a challenge whether they throw a tantrum at 2, 12 or 16.  They may be upset if you set boundaries and hold them to it ~ but they won’t die.  They won’t hate you.  They won’t even faint.  They will be OK because you are showing them love.  You are showing them discipline and right living.  You are showing them how their actions affect their lives and those around them.  You are showing them how to live for the Lord.  Raising children has shown me that although I may feel like a wimp sometimes ~ I’m a lot stronger than I think!  AND SO ARE YOU!


7 ~ WALK HUMBLY WITH YOUR GOD

SEEK THE LORD AND HIS STRENGTH

This blog isn’t a legalistic list to follow to check off the box.  It isn’t about judging other people’s children and families.  This is about how every family has potential to grow closer to the Lord and be a blessing to those around them.  It’s about putting God first and truly loving our family.

We can only paint with the colors we have at each moment of our lives so it’s OK to feel like we fall short.  It’s about recognizing that God~ perfect and Holy ~ gave us His best.  So we can give Him our best ~ with His strength.  We give Him our hearts, our children, our families…our lives ~ OUR BEST!

Our children understand that we’re only human and that we make mistakes.  They know us better than we think they do.  They can tell if we fail, are hypocritical, or indifferent.  Or if our strength is in the Lord and our dependence is on Him.  They see us trying and they see our love.  It’s really hard to hide our hearts from them.

So when all else fails ~ TRUST ~ BELIEVE ~ HAVE FAITH & HOPE

He has told you, O man, what is good and what the Lord requires of you ~ To act justly, to love kindness, and to WALK HUMBLY WITH YOUR GOD.   Micah 6:8

SEEK HIS FACE CONTINUALLY

1 Chronicles 16:8-11


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7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

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The Power of His Resurrection

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The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent (Part 2)

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4 Negative Emotions Moms Should Avoid

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4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

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Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

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Inspiring Teens to Make a Positive Impact For Christ

“Teens will be teens” is one pastor’s response when he heard that some students in his youth group were drinking, smoking and doing drugs.  Although parents and leaders were aware, these kids not only continued in their habits but they led other teens down the same destructive path.  Now ~ I’m not going to criticize the thoughtless comment because I will be the first to admit to often speaking before thinking.

But unfortunately, some people think that teenagers should act foolishly and impulsively and this is their time to do so.  

As children navigate through their teens from childhood to adulthood, it’s important for the adults in their lives to gently and continually guide them toward Jesus ~ not make excuses.

See my post ~ Five Lies Concerning Teens

It’s a breath of fresh air when young people are living for the Lord, blessing others and are mindful of their future.  The world notices.  It should be expected because what else is a child of the King to do?  Obey God and serve others, of course!

Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.  1 Timothy 4:12

SPEECH

Lives can be saved or destroyed by the words that are said because words matter.  Young people can impact younger children who look up to them and want to be just like them, be a blessing to their peers and family, and also set an example for the older folks who have forgotten the right way to live ~ or the right things to say.  Adolescents have a stronger influence than they realize.  It is important to always look to the Lord and put Him first in everything ~ including what we say.

CONDUCT

What a pleasure to have children who are wise.  Proverbs 23:24

Even children are known by the way they act, whether their actions are pure and right.  Proverbs 20:11

It’s a well known fact that kids will sometimes do dumb things.  Which is why they are closely supervised by adults until the age of 18 or older and car insurance is usually sky high until age 25.  They’re still growing and learning.

When mature adults act foolishly, it’s inappropriate and embarrassing so it shouldn’t be overlooked or tolerated when teens engage in this type of conduct.

When we were in high school, there were a group of teens in our youth group who were bold and faithfully served the Lord.  Some had godly parents who were good role models and some not so much.  We had a super great youth pastor who carefully guided us and encouraged us to walk with the Lord.  He challenged us, taught us, and lovingly pushed us out of our comfort zones.

At the same time, there were adult leaders in our youth group who were living worldly lives and destroying the very kids they were suppose to serve.

It’s a tough world to live in and living a selfish life will not make life easier.

There comes a point in everyone’s life when they decide which path they’re going to take.   Teens don’t need to wait until after they do all the stupid and foolish things first before deciding to live right.  

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15.

LOVE

Teenagers will often have a low self esteem.  But the truth is ~ it’s OK.  It’s OK to still be learning and failing and not knowing what to do or say. We’ve all been there.  No one goes from being a kid into a perfectly mature adult over night.  Most people don’t become that in a lifetime.  But continually looking to the Lord and growing in Him will make all the difference in the world.

Young people:  God loves you so much and is crazy about you.  He knows every little detail about your life and He will guide and direct you.  He loves you so much that He died on the cross for you.

All you have to do is believe and trust that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins and rose from the dead.  This is important.  The most important decision you will ever make!

You don’t need to try to impress people.  If you have trusted Jesus as your Savior, God is already pleased with you and you matter to Him.  You have the freedom to love yourself and to love those around you ~ even if it’s awkward and imperfect.

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.  John 3:16


And Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.”  John 14:6


FAITH

Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.  Hebrews 11:1

We can have faith and trust God even when things look grim to us.  Many people go to college after high school because they know that the hard work and dedication will bring rewards in the future.  It will bring a better life and a higher income.

Teens need to think that way for their personal decisions also.  Making good positive choices in their daily lives will make a better future for them and their future family.  One day teens will have a family of their own and the things they do today can affect their future spouse and children.

Teens need to learn the value of having faith and seeking God every single day.

PURITY

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.  Galatians 2:22-23

~ Seeking and loving God

~ Loving others

~ Discipline

~ Honesty

~ Integrity

~ Right living

~ Self Control

~ Sexual purity

These are all areas teens need to learn and grow in.  They’re not going to do this perfectly and they’re going to fail, but that’s the beauty of growing up.  You learn from your mistakes.

Being intentional in your children’s lives to show them accountability with love and direction is immeasurable.

~ SHOW UP

~ BE THERE

~ CARE

~ WALK HUMBLY WITH YOUR GOD

It’s important.


 Five Lies Concerning Teens

7 Tips For Encouraging Teens to Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

 


Parenting teens isn’t easy and I don’t have all the answers.  In fact, I’m learning this as I go along even though I wouldn’t exactly call myself a newbie.

Sadly, we have found that it’s not uncommon for teens in church youth groups to engage in cruelty, rejection, drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, porn, and homosexuality.  These are not just the typical rebellious teenager or unchurched bringing a negative influence to youth groups but homeschooled children, church leader’s children, and children whose parents are very active in the church.  No one is immune.

It takes faith and boldness to be a teenager who is a shining example these days ~ but it’s a life worth living. Strength and courage comes from God and parents can make a huge impact on their children with their loving encouragement and faithful prayers.

People who are quick to dismiss our concerns haven’t raised a teen in this tech savvy, politically correct, God-hating times.  Be vigilant and look to the Lord.  If something seems off, investigate until you’re satisfied.  Don’t be afraid to hold your teen accountable.  It may very well save them.


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7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

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The Power of His Resurrection

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4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

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Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

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Five Lies Concerning Teens

The teen section of our library is currently celebrating gay teen pride and displaying a ton of books for LGBTQ.  Other times, the teen exhibits include witchcraft and other dark and evil books.

Thankfully, they don’t have such disturbing displays for younger children and adults but why would they have such exhibits for teens?

The world can be so pushy with their false beliefs that it’s easy for people to fall for the untruth ~ which is often directed toward our teens.

I know there’s more but I wanted to touch on the ones that come to mind at the moment.  I don’t know everything that pressures our youth today but I will share my thoughts based on our own experiences.

#1 – Faithful teens should influence troubled teens  

While faithful teens can always impact others for good and positive peer pressure is a thing, they should never hang around kids who they know are participating in drinking, doing drugs, engaging in sexual or any other sinful acts so they can change their lives.  If the troubled teens haven’t repented and aren’t being held accountable by the adults in their lives, then other kids need to stay far away from them.

Of course, if there is repentance and accountability, they should be given another chance but it isn’t up to other teens to make that happen. Kindness and forgiveness is possible without putting other children at risk.

We’ve had to guide our teens to stay the course among negative situations (that was handled appropriately by adults) but we also had to take our kids out of youth groups and disappear so quickly that even Houdini would have been surprised.

Each situation is different and the Holy Spirit will guide each family with how to move forward.  Be aware of who your kids are friends with and who they hang around.  Trust your gut.  God will speak to you about your family.

 #2 – Popularity is important

It’s not.  It’s a lie to think that being popular will make a kid happy and successful.  Most adults will read this post and agree that it’s a lie but in real life situations they’ll secretly believe it to be true.

I’ve heard parents say that they’re happy their children are popular and I’m not saying that it’s wrong.  I’m just saying that it’s not important and shouldn’t be a goal in teen’s life.

Lead them to Jesus.  He is always accepting and kind.  Contentment only comes from living a life for Christ.

#3 – Having a lot of friends is important

 It may be fun to have a lot of friends but it’s not necessary.  Everyone goes through phases of life when they have more friends than other times. Sometimes there may be times when they don’t have any friends.  People come and people go but God is always there.  If a teen is experiencing a friendless period of time especially after a move, pray and ask God to provide a positive friendship.  Lead them to Jesus.  He will provide.  God may use this time to draw them to Him.  Trust God.

#4 – Now is their time to live sinfully

NEVER!  Mistakes will happen but indulging in sinful or selfish acts should be strongly discouraged.  I know people who could never recover from the things they did as a teen.  The things they do now can stay with them for a lifetime.  The world pushes the lie that this is the one time in their lives that they can get away with acting foolishly ~ but we need to teach daily the value of seeking God.

#5 – Being cruel is cool

I am truly shocked at how mean Christian teens can be to their peers. Most children are taught compassion from a very young age and there is never an excuse for unkindness to others.  Now is as good a time as any to practice kindness and self control.

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.  Ephesians 4:32

See my blog ~ 7 Tips For Encouraging Teens to Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants


The blog I was writing this week was so long that I took this from it and made it a whole separate blog.  Next week, I’ll talk more about teenagers and how they can impact the world for Christ.

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The Diagnosis ~ Forever Changed (MOST RECENT)

Walking With Excellence

7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

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Calling All Overworked & Under-Appreciated Moms  (4 Reminders)

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Calling All Overworked and Under-appreciated Moms (Video)

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Getting Rid of Distractions

He is a Jealous God

How Much Does God Love Us?

Live Loved

Dearly Devoted 

The Power of His Resurrection

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Oh Be Careful Little Mind What You Think

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent (Part 2)

How To Be A Perfect Mom

4 Negative Emotions Moms Should Avoid

One Important Key To Being A Good Mom

How To Keep The World From Getting In Your Head (4 Steps)

4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

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Handling Homeschool Stress Gracefully 

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 1)

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

6 Ways to Save Money on Homeschool Curriculum

7 Money Saving Tips

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How I Cured My Food Allergies

Chicken Noodle Soup

Healthy Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins

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