Let’s Go to Church

I know so many people who were abused and mistreated in the church which left them completely devastated.  I know children whose spiritual lives were sabotaged by leaders or other people in the church.  It happens.  I’ve seen it.  It has happened to our own family.

I have no words to even begin to describe how incredibly horrible this is!  People who never set foot in a church again and some have even turned their backs on God after a “leader” or someone in a church has hurt them so terribly.  There are sometimes wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church and we need keep watch not only for our own sakes but also for our children and grandchildren too.

I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people. 

Romans 16:17-18

If you suspect this is going on in your church, or something seems off, don’t ignore it.  Seek help!  It’s important!  The worst thing to do, however, is to stop going to church or to turn your back on the Lord.  That’s exactly what satan wants us to do and he’ll use the church to do just that if we let him.  Don’t let him!  Get counseling, seek advice, talk to someone that you trust.  Do whatever it takes to get help and healing.  It’s not your fault.  It’s not God’s fault.  It’s the consequence of sin and a fallen world.

Here are a few things that we personally look for when seeking a church:

1. Sound Doctrine

This is the most obvious common sense.  We make sure the church is a bible believing church with bible beliefs and doctrine.  We go through their doctrinal statement and statement of faith.  This should be 100% biblically based on not politically correct.  Everyone has their personal preference on certain issues but it should never go against God’s word.

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.  Colossians 3:16

2.  Servant’s Heart

The pastors, elders and leaders of the church should have a servant’s heart.  They should love the Lord, love people, and love their families.  If they are moody, manipulative, give people the cold shoulder, act grumpy towards the people in the church on a regular basis, then we won’t be back.  When church leaders view this as a job and not a ministry ~ it shows.  People can tell.

Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor.  1 Corinthians 10:24

I’m not saying that leaders in the church need to be perfect all the time and not share their feelings or frustrations.  In fact, I feel that pastors and leaders should be encouraged, prayed for, and loved on every single day.  I’m talking about the leaders who don’t like people, play favorites, and push people out the door with their attitude.

Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless—not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.

Titus 1:7-9

3.  Sin is Not Ignored

When sin is allowed in the church and not addressed, it ruins lives and ruins the church.  If there is sexual sin, sexual abuse, drug and alcohol abuse being allowed in the church, and the leaders are making excuses or sweeping it under the rug ~ RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!

 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside?  God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.” 1 Corinthians 5:9-13

4.  LOVE

We look for a church where love is demonstrated on a regular basis.  When people in the church love each other, love their leaders and congregation, love new people, love non-christians, love their community, love people in other cultures ~ basically love outside themselves, it makes for a strong church and individual growth.  That’s not to say that they don’t love themselves because I truly believe that is really important.  But their focus is on meeting the needs and loving on everyone around them.

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.  1 John 4:7

Read my blog about this very thing:

“The Number One Way to Eliminate Burnout”

5.  Encouragement

God wants us to go to church for US!  It’s a time in the week, set apart where we focus on God with other believers to study God’s Word together, worship God together, and have communion to remember Jesus’ death on the cross and resurrection.  It’s for us to get encouragement and courage.  To lay the stress and pressure of the world at the feet of Jesus so we can focus on Him to renew our strength.  If someone in the church is sabotaging this for us ~ it needs to be addressed.

~ Pray for wisdom

~ Talk to the person who is doing the hurting

~ Be firm but kind

~ Talk to a leader, pastor or counselor with the person to work things out

~ Forgive

~ Move forward

~ Prayerfully figure out if there needs to be more steps taken.  Obviously, every situation will need to be handled differently depending on the situation and severity.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24-25


If there is past hurt in your heart from the church, please know that this is not from the Lord.  There are good churches out there.  Healing, love, freedom, and forgiveness is yours to take!  God is loving and powerful and will heal and lead you.  Journal your feelings, pray continually for healing, seek help, get encouragement.  Please let me know how I can pray for you and how I can help.  Our family has been there.  You are NEVER ALONE!


Health and Wellness Tip

Last week I shared our story of how I discovered that brain health and balance begins in the gut.  I also shared how we’ve been diligent to take high quality probiotics, yeast killers, digestive enzymes and papaya tablets daily for years.  So why wasn’t this healing our gut and brain?  I’m so glad you asked!

We were missing something HUGE!  We found a probiotic that has an enzyme that will breakdown the protective shield that will hide the yeast. Plexus has a special blend of probiotics that targets yeast overgrowth, gut balance, digestive health and brain health.  AND it works!!

Plexus TriPlex are three products that work together, to focus on the major things that cause health and weight problems in todays society.  Blood sugar balance (not just for diabetics!), gut health, inflammation and detox.

I’ve seen amazing results in not only myself and my family, but also in thousands of others.  I’m so thankful!

I hit some sort of “I’ve HAD IT!!” attitude last summer.  I read 4 books on brain health, for crying out loud!  Who does that?  Someone who’s fed up with doing everything they know possible with diet, exercise, supplements and treatments and their entire family is still having major health issues ~  and someone who is bound and determined to get to the bottom of this health crisis.

Lots of prayer ~ lots of research ~ and lots of trying everything under the sun!

God answered my prayers ~ and in a funny way too!  His sense of humor made me laugh and cry at the same time.

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.  Mark 11:24

If you’re struggling with health or weight issues.  Pray and ask the Lord for wisdom.  Then read my blog!


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B L E S S I N G S


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7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

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6 Tips To Quick Cleaning ~ Kitchen Style

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The Cause of Destruction

Why We Need a Savior and How to Teach This to Your Children

Brave and Strong

Mawwiage is what bwings us togethew today!

The Diagnosis ~ Forever Changed

Walking With Excellence

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Jaimee’s Blog Video (Mom Vlog)

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Getting Rid of Distractions

He is a Jealous God

How Much Does God Love Us?

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Dearly Devoted 

The Power of His Resurrection

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Battling Rejection With Boldness

A Healthy Fruit-Bearing Life

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The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent (Part 2)

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How To Keep The World From Getting In Your Head (4 Steps)

4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

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Money Madness

~ Creating a Homeschool Schedule ~

Handling Homeschool Stress Gracefully 

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 1)

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

6 Ways to Save Money on Homeschool Curriculum

7 Money Saving Tips

Health & Recipes:

How I Cured My Food Allergies

Chicken Noodle Soup

Healthy Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins

Perfect Homemade Flour Tortillas

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Salsa Recipe

 

 

 

The Number One Way to Eliminate Burnout

We hit the ground running each morning!

We work tirelessly everyday taking care of the needs of our family!

Laundry is forever a chore that is never finished!

Mealtime again?  Why does everyone have to eat all the time?

Bills need to be paid!

Junk needs to be tossed!

Email!

Work!

There is not enough time in the day to get it all done!

So how can we avoid burnout when life can be hectic and threatens to take us out?

There is one answer.

One key component that will prevent any of us from:

~ getting burned out

~ getting frustrated

~ throwing in the towel


BEING OTHERS FOCUSED!


“Intentionally adding value to others today will bring you fulfillment everyday.”  John Maxwell

When we intentionally add value into other people’s lives ~ we are fulfilled!

 Be devoted to one another in love.  Honor one another above yourselves.  Romans 12:10

All of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit.  1 Peter 3:8

Be intentional to seek ways to add value to everyone, not just those closest to us.  It helps us not to see others as obstacles that must be conquered.

It not only prevents us from crashing and burning, it also blesses others and honors God!


HEALTH AND WELLNESS TIPS

You’ve probably heard by now that gut health is very important.

Having a healthy gut and digestive system is tied to energy production, immune system health, and also brain health.

Serotonin is responsible for regulating our mood, our appetite and sleep.  Having a relaxed and positive feeling is the result of just the right amount of serotonin in our brain.

Did you know that 90% of serotonin is produced in the gut and 10% is produced in the brain?  If our gut is out of balance ~ it affects our brain!

That’s a double whammy!

Personally ~ we have been careful to treat our children’s significant digestive issues.  Finding out that their food allergies, and autoimmune disorders, Type 1 Diabetes and Celiac’s disease, are all gut imbalance issues made me diligent with adding probiotics, yeast killers, digestive enzymes and papaya tablets to our supplement routine.  But most of their symptoms are brain related.  Since I thought we were treating their gut issues affectively, I read 4 brain imbalance books last summer, written by doctors and psychologists, to help me with other symptoms we were dealing with.  I found that their brain problems were actually gut problems!  ADHD, ADD, ODD, sleep problems, behavior problems, memory problems, difficulty in school, difficulty talking, moodiness, hormone imbalance etc. are all reasons why I was pulling my hair out trying to figure out how to ease some of these symptoms.  I found the answer:

GUT HEALTH!


Thank you so much for reading my blog!  I’d love to hear your thoughts and your story.  You can email me at JaimeeKeith@yahoo.com or JaimeeKeithBlog@yahoo.com.

Have a wonderful day and enjoy your weekend!

Many Blessings!


My other articles:

The Cause of Destruction

HaPpY Thanksgiving

Why We Need a Savior and How to Teach This to Your Children

Brave and Strong

Accomplish More With Less Insanity

Amazing Value and Worth

Battling Rejection With Boldness

A Healthy Fruit-Bearing Life

So Long Fear ~ Hello Trust!

Money Madness

Healthy Happy #MomLife

Be A Risk Taker

Teens:

7 Ways To Make Great Teens 

Inspiring Teens to Make a Positive Impact For Christ

Five Lies Concerning Teens

7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

Cleaning & Organizing:

Accomplish More With Less Insanity

6 Tips To Quick Cleaning ~ Kitchen Style

Family:

The Cause of Destruction

Why We Need a Savior and How to Teach This to Your Children

Brave and Strong

Mawwiage is what bwings us togethew today!

The Diagnosis ~ Forever Changed

Walking With Excellence

DO NOT READ THIS BLOG!

Calling All Overworked & Under-Appreciated Moms  (4 Reminders)

YouTube Videos:

My Plexus story about my health

My Plexus Update

7 Tips For Building a Relationship With Your Teens

Jaimee’s Blog Video (Mom Vlog)

Mimi Speaks (Encouragement video)

Calling All Overworked and Under-appreciated Moms (Video)

Devotional Series:

Getting Rid of Distractions

He is a Jealous God

How Much Does God Love Us?

Live Loved

Dearly Devoted 

The Power of His Resurrection

Spiritual & Inspirational:

HaPpY Thanksgiving

Amazing Value and Worth

Battling Rejection With Boldness

A Healthy Fruit-Bearing Life

So Long Fear ~ Hello Trust!

WAKE UP!! 5 Ways to Make a Difference

I Will Enter His Gates With Thanksgiving In My Heart

3 Ways People Play the Blame Game

Oh Be Careful Little Mind What You Think

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent (Part 2)

How To Be A Perfect Mom

4 Negative Emotions Moms Should Avoid

One Important Key To Being A Good Mom

How To Keep The World From Getting In Your Head (4 Steps)

4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Homeschooling & Money:

Money Madness

~ Creating a Homeschool Schedule ~

Handling Homeschool Stress Gracefully 

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 1)

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

6 Ways to Save Money on Homeschool Curriculum

7 Money Saving Tips

Health & Recipes:

How I Cured My Food Allergies

Chicken Noodle Soup

Healthy Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins

Perfect Homemade Flour Tortillas

Hooray For 3-Minute Pizza

Salsa Recipe

 

 

The Cause of Destruction

A foolish son is destruction to his father, and the contentions of a wife are a constant dripping.  Proverbs 19:13

I think it is interesting that a foolish son and a contentious wife are both mentioned in this verse as detrimental to the husband.  A mother has a great impact on her children and her husband and sometimes I think we forget.  By being intentional every day and pouring God’s love into our family, it allows God to work in our hearts as well as the hearts of our husband and children.

It’s not about controlling the people around us, as tempting as it can be sometimes, it’s about looking to the Lord, loving our family, and building relationships.

It’s OK of we fail.  It’s OK if our children and spouse fails.  We’re all going to fall down.  It’s important our family has our love, support and encouragement when things go south.  We should be a safe place when the people we love the most have a bad day or act stupid.  Nagging and being contentious should be thrown out with yesterdays trash whether it’s toward our husband or our children.  If my words offend you, don’t mind me, I’m just talking to myself!

If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.  If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing.  If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love.

Without love we are contributing to the destruction of our family.  Our children will be foolish and our husbands will be bitter.  And without God in our lives, we can not love.

Seek the Lord.  Ask Him for wisdom.  Pray for encouragement and for answers.  God will make a way for you to be the very best for your family.

 


Health and Wellness Tip

Many of us know that antibiotics kill the good bacteria in our gut.  But not too many people know that without the good bacteria, fungus will grow stronger and line the colon, prevent the nutrients from our food from being absorbed and will take our immune system hostage! YUCK!

This in turn causes so many diseases and health and weight issues so common today.  Gut balance is the root system of our health.  We all need healing in our digestive system and everyone needs a good probiotic!

~ Eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables

~ Add chopped veggies to all of your meals, like sauces, soups, beans etc.

~ Drink plenty of water.  Set an alarm every hour if you have to *AHEM*

~ Plexus products have hands down made a huge impact on my health.  It’s not a magic pill, but a tool for those serious about getting healthy, staying healthy or losing weight.

Plant-based, powerful, potent, effective, safe!

 


HaPpY DECEMBER EVERYONE!  I hope you have a fantastic weekend.  Please subscribe to my blog and tell me what you think ~ JaimeeKeith@yahoo.com

ALL FOR HIS GLORY


My other articles:

HaPpY Thanksgiving

Why We Need a Savior and How to Teach This to Your Children

Brave and Strong

Accomplish More With Less Insanity

Amazing Value and Worth

Battling Rejection With Boldness

A Healthy Fruit-Bearing Life

So Long Fear ~ Hello Trust!

Money Madness

Healthy Happy #MomLife

Be A Risk Taker

Teens:

7 Ways To Make Great Teens 

Inspiring Teens to Make a Positive Impact For Christ

Five Lies Concerning Teens

7 Tips For Encouraging Teens To Wear Happy Pants ~ Not Grumpy Pants

Cleaning & Organizing:

Accomplish More With Less Insanity

6 Tips To Quick Cleaning ~ Kitchen Style

Family:

Why We Need a Savior and How to Teach This to Your Children

Brave and Strong

Mawwiage is what bwings us togethew today!

The Diagnosis ~ Forever Changed

Walking With Excellence

DO NOT READ THIS BLOG!

Calling All Overworked & Under-Appreciated Moms  (4 Reminders)

YouTube Videos:

My Plexus story about my health

My Plexus Update

7 Tips For Building a Relationship With Your Teens

Jaimee’s Blog Video (Mom Vlog)

Mimi Speaks (Encouragement video)

Calling All Overworked and Under-appreciated Moms (Video)

Devotional Series:

Getting Rid of Distractions

He is a Jealous God

How Much Does God Love Us?

Live Loved

Dearly Devoted 

The Power of His Resurrection

Spiritual & Inspirational:

HaPpY Thanksgiving

Amazing Value and Worth

Battling Rejection With Boldness

A Healthy Fruit-Bearing Life

So Long Fear ~ Hello Trust!

WAKE UP!! 5 Ways to Make a Difference

I Will Enter His Gates With Thanksgiving In My Heart

3 Ways People Play the Blame Game

Oh Be Careful Little Mind What You Think

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent

The Time I Gave Up Social Media For Lent (Part 2)

How To Be A Perfect Mom

4 Negative Emotions Moms Should Avoid

One Important Key To Being A Good Mom

How To Keep The World From Getting In Your Head (4 Steps)

4 New Year’s Resolutions That Will Change Your Life

4 Things to Remember When Things Don’t Go As Planned

Homeschooling & Money:

Money Madness

~ Creating a Homeschool Schedule ~

Handling Homeschool Stress Gracefully 

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 1)

Kindergarten is the Hardest! (Part 2)

6 Ways to Save Money on Homeschool Curriculum

7 Money Saving Tips

Health & Recipes:

How I Cured My Food Allergies

Chicken Noodle Soup

Healthy Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins

Perfect Homemade Flour Tortillas

Hooray For 3-Minute Pizza

Salsa Recipe